The Wedding
Friday
the First of May, 2015
A sartorial look at a stylish wedding…
Complete with a stunning bride and a
handsome groom.
It was
immediately obvious that the little…and not so little…. girls present had all
their Princess fantasies confirmed as the lovely bride walked up her open air
aisle. Appearing through a green arch, ably squired by her papa, she smiled
with real joy. This was the opening act of what was to be a true family
wedding. One that had a warmth that had nothing to do with the temperature.
I shall
start with the star of our show…..the Bride.
White dress.
Veil. Flowers.
That’s it.
Not really.
The bride
wore a confection that combined a classic satin dress with an exquisite net and
chiffon overdress which sparkled and glittered with pearls, sequins and
brilliants. Lines of fine detailed stitching and hints of lace swirled across
the bodice and dipped away under the bust in long sweeping trails down and around
the skirt. Sunlight bounced off the slender sequined straps and flashed on the
jewelled ornament on the bodice. A fine gauze veil with lace edges streamed out
from the back of the brides head, held in place with a comb that sat just above
a strand of pearls tucked into the waves and curls of her coiffure. There were
brief glimpses of her T bar ankle strap shoes, complete with peep toes and a
hint of silver sparkle.
She looked
at ease in her glorious gown. As if she was wearing it, rather than it wearing
her. And as she later proved, she certainly was comfortable…. eating, drinking
and dancing the night away. With the veil discarded, two strands of hair curled
down her neck as her hair relaxed along with the rest of her. Then the high heels
were off and the train was looped over one of the tiny buttons that marched
down the back of her dress, and viola! there was a ceilidh dancing bride and
her kilt clad husband.
It was a
sight to be seen.
I was glad
that the bride didn’t change out of her wedding gown for the evening. So much
love and care and effort (and yes, expense) goes into THE dress, it seems a
pity when it only gets worn for a few hours.
The bridesmaids
were straight out of ‘Perfect Bridesmaid Weekly’ three tall slim young ladies who
were poised and pretty in floor length eau de nil gowns. Columnar in design, a
broad satin band under the bust gave a hint of an Empire line. The satin band was
finished with a jewelled motif that echoed the detail on the brides’ dress. The
bridesmaid’s hair had been styled with pearl pins which matched their pearl jewellery.
(Which was
a present from the bride.)
The tiny
flower girl, simply dressed in a white dress and bolero with pearl detail,
proved that girls are never too young to multi task, having ably assisted with
the rings as well.
The ladies
of the bridal party complemented each other in shades of blue. The mother of
the bride rocked a pale blue sheath, with an off the shoulder swathed bodice with
more than a hint of fifties chic, teamed with a matching net trimmed fascinator
and pale pearl shoes and clutch.
The grooms
mum wore dark blue and white. Her slim fitting dark blue dress had a blue appliqué
design on the white bodice, all topped off by a white bolero jacket with the appliqué
design echoed on the cuffs.
The bride’s
grandmother was quietly elegant in a blue and white patterned dress with a blue
jacket and accessories. She wore a tall crown narrow brimmed hat and I believe
that it was the only example of an old school wedding hat I saw all day. The
mother of the flower girl showed where her daughter got her taste from. Her dark
blue velvet coat with a deep embroidered hem was gorgeous. I guessed it would
be a ‘name’ item and there it was on the label ‘Betsey Johnson NYC’.
nb. Before
you ask, I did ask permission to scrutinise the coat. The lady had already removed
it, so once I had finished admiring her strapless dark blue dress with sash and
back bow in dusty rose pink, I headed straight for the label.
It’s hard
to know where to start with a fashion breakdown of what the lady guests were
wearing that day. All sorts of lengths were on parade. Short, midi, long. A
pair of culottes teamed with a black lace bare midriff top and a plain black
jacket was striking. Some gauzy floor length dresses drifted past me..romantic
and fashionable. A favourite for me was a dark green dress patterned with water
lilies and white cranes. It had a crossover top, which revealed a triangle of
skin above the waistband of the slim fitting skirt. Shift dresses in vibrant shades of lace gave a
pop of colour and showed off some neat figures and carefully chosen
accessories. Patterned dresses worn under plain jackets were a look that was
popular. Two of my favourites were a raspberry patterned dress with plain
raspberry sash, teamed with a raspberry jacket, bag and shoes, and a midcalf dress,
black, with a colourful pattern and black jacket, ankle strap shoes and
oversized clutch. Black was a popular choice in one shape or form. One extremely
svelte outfit was a white dress with black piping and the reverse for the
jacket..simple but effective.
Separates
were as popular as dresses. One willowy lady nailed a red pencil skirt and
white sleeveless top patterned with peonies. An example of perfect coordination showed in one ensemble
of blush pink jacket, light grey jacquard print dress and nude shoes / clutch. Classic
glamour was present in the shape of a pale pink silk gauze coat, patterned with
satin tendrils, worn over a dress of the same colour with a bead encrusted bodice.
Hats were mainly
small neat shapes worn at the front of the head on an Alice band. Fascinators ruled and everyone had
taken huge care to match colours and styles. My favourite hat was a dazzling blue
and white number with fabric loops and blue flowers, setting off a cobalt one
shouldered draped dress to perfection.
(Well I say
my favourite hat, because if I said my
tiny red bowler complete with lace, bow, feather and fake diamond was the best,
it wouldn’t be strictly impartial…would it?)
A red lip
was everywhere and a lot of nails had clearly seen the attention of a manicurist.
The meal
over, the falling away of hats began and by the time the ceilidh was in full
swing, heels were a distant memory. I was comforted by the fact that the
majority of the assembled company were of the medical persuasion. I felt that an orthopaedic surgeon might well
be required as the dancing and the bare feet got together on the dance floor.
Thankfully not.
I could
write as much again about the love and care and time that went into planning
this wonderful day…but will simply mention a few standout items.
A Polaroid
camera, provided for candid shots of the guests by the guests. (Am I the only
person who didn’t know Polaroid cameras were back? Oh and what about Dymo
labels…are they cutting edge or retro??)
Thanks to
the painting skills of the bride’s father everyone had a silver horse shoe at
their place as a wedding favour. No bag of sugar almonds or a box of dragees
for this bride. There were white lace effect lantern holders outside and photos
of the happy couple as boyfriend and girlfriend inside. Plus my personal
favourite…photos of their grandparents and parents weddings. It seems only
yesterday the bride’s mother and I looked that young…….
The button
holes and table flowers were some of the best I have ever seen. Using lots of
different sized and shaped clear glass jars and pots as vases was such a clever
idea. Needless to say the flowers coordinated perfectly. Everything coordinated
with everything else. Invites, cake, orders of service, the table plan and the colours
of the ink used on the menu which was written on a mirror..endlessly inventive.
Oh, I haven’t
mentioned men.
There were
some there. The groom’s party were in kilts. Men in kilts and socks with long
shoe laces and sporrans and black waistcoats with silver buttons. I shall refrain
from the usual kilt based innuendo, but did note that a sporran makes a very
useful handbag……
Thanks for
letting me into your wedding world K &N.
It was
perfect. Perfectly lovely.